Life after trauma often feels like standing on the edge of a cliff, staring out into a vast, uncertain void. It’s in these moments, when the ground beneath you seems to shift and sway, that you might wonder how to find strength when everything feels so unknown. Today, let’s talk about how to embrace this uncertainty and find the courage to keep moving forward.
***The Uncertainty of the Journey***
When you’ve come out of a season of hardship—whether it was an abusive relationship, a painful divorce, or another life-altering event—the future can look more daunting than hopeful. You may find yourself asking, “What now?” or “Where do I go from here?” The truth is, it’s okay to feel unsure. It’s okay to admit that you don’t have all the answers. In fact, acknowledging this uncertainty is the first step toward finding strength.
We often feel pressured to have everything figured out, to know exactly what the next chapter of our lives should look like. But here’s a secret: God doesn’t expect us to have it all together. He simply asks us to trust Him with the pieces.
***Trusting in God’s Plan***
Trust. It’s a word we hear often, but living it out, especially in times of uncertainty, is another story. Trusting God’s plan means letting go of the need to control every detail and allowing Him to lead you, even when you can’t see the path ahead.
Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” This doesn’t mean the journey will be easy or that the path will always be clear. But it does mean that you don’t have to navigate it alone.
When the future seems uncertain, remember that God’s perspective is eternal. He sees the beginning, the middle, and the end of your story, even when you can’t. Embracing uncertainty means trusting that God is at work, even in the silence, even in the waiting, even when you can’t see what’s coming next.
***Finding Strength in the Unknown***
So, how do you find strength when everything around you feels unstable? Start by grounding yourself in what is certain: God’s promises. He promises to never leave you or forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). He promises that He has plans for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11).
These promises are your anchor in the storm. They are the truth you can cling to when doubt and fear try to overwhelm you. When you feel weak, remind yourself that His strength is made perfect in your weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). You don’t have to be strong on your own; God’s strength is more than enough to carry you through.
***Taking It One Step at a Time***
In times of uncertainty, it’s easy to get caught up in the “what ifs.” What if things don’t work out? What if I fail? What if I never find my way? But here’s the thing: you don’t have to figure it all out today. Sometimes, finding strength in the unknown means taking it one step at a time.
Focus on what you can do today. Maybe it’s as simple as getting out of bed and facing the day with courage. Maybe it’s taking a small step toward a new goal or reaching out for support. Whatever it is, trust that God will give you the strength you need for each moment.
The journey may be long, and the road may be winding, but you are not walking it alone. Each step you take, no matter how small, is a step toward the future God has prepared for you.
***Embracing the Beauty of the Unknown***
There’s a certain beauty in the unknown, even if it doesn’t feel like it at first. It’s in the unknown that we are stretched, that we grow, and that we learn to rely on God in ways we never have before. It’s where our faith is tested and strengthened.
When you embrace the uncertainty, you open yourself up to the possibility of new beginnings, new opportunities, and new blessings. You allow God to write your story in ways that you couldn’t have imagined. And as you move forward, you’ll find that what once felt like a void is actually a canvas, ready to be filled with the colors of God’s grace and love.
***Final Thoughts***
Embracing uncertainty is not about pretending to have all the answers. It’s about finding peace in the not knowing, strength in the waiting, and hope in the promise that God is with you, guiding you every step of the way.
So, Momma, as you stand on the edge of the unknown, take a deep breath. Trust that God is already there, preparing the way for you. Embrace the uncertainty, knowing that it’s in these moments that your faith will grow the most. And remember, you don’t have to walk this path alone—God is with you, and so are your sisters in Christ.