Hey there, sister. If you’ve ever been through the wringer of abuse and found the strength to break free by the grace of God, then listen up. It’s time to tackle head-on the harsh reality of those who try to drag your name through the mud with their lies.The Power of Speaking Up: Defending Truth in the Face of Injustice
You know, they say “you have the right to remain silent” in certain situations. But oh, how wrong they are when it comes to the truth you carry. Because when it comes to speaking out against the lies and manipulation, you have every right to raise your voice and demand justice. In certain settings, like the courts, women have been made to feel their emotions are invalid expressions of their experiences. But remember, your voice has the power to break the yoke of oppression.
A Few Words To The Emotional Puppet Master master
Hey there, If you’ve been the one causing hurt and spreading falsehoods to cover your tracks, it’s time for a serious talk. You might believe you’re slipping under the radar, but let me remind you, there’s One who sees all and knows all – and that’s God. Your pride and arrogance are only leading you further into trouble. It’s high time you faced up to your mistakes and took responsibility for your actions. Remember the wise words from Proverbs 16:18, which says, “Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.”You may be laughing now, thinking you’re outsmarting everyone, but here’s the truth: God isn’t fooled by your charade. He sees through the mask you wear, and He won’t let your deceit go unpunished. As Romans 2:9 warns, “There will be trouble and distress for every human being who does evil.”Now, let’s talk about marriage, especially since you’ve hammered her with the false notion that she had to stay with you or she was sinning. You’ve manipulated and emotionally abused her, convincing her that leaving you would bring about some curse upon herself. The truth is, being with you has already brought her untold pain and suffering. Marriage, a covenant marriage, isn’t about begging, pleading, or enduring emotional warfare. It’s about honoring a sacred agreement – an agreement to live in reverence for Christ and treat each other with respect and dignity. Ephesians 5:21 reminds us to “submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.”In a covenant marriage, there is no place for coercion, manipulation, or abuse. God’s plan for marriage is clear: to reflect the love Christ has for the church. That means husbands are called to love their wives sacrificially, just as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25-30). Defiance, rebellion, or indifference in a covenant marriage is unholy. It creates a house divided, an uneven yoke that God cannot join together (2 Corinthians 6:14-18). And let’s be clear: evil behavior within a covenant relationship is not part of God’s plan. It’s not a marriage problem; it’s an evil behavioral problem. Unrepentant, evil behavior violates the biblical marriage covenant. Additionally, in the context of 1 Corinthians 7:15, an unbelieving spouse refers to someone who does not share the same faith as their partner, particularly in the teachings and principles outlined by God. However, being an unbeliever in this sense extends beyond just a lack of faith in God; it encompasses a rejection or defiance of God’s truth and commandments. In the case of an abusive spouse, their actions and behavior demonstrate a departure from God’s design for marriage and a rejection of the fundamental principles of love, respect, and care outlined in Scripture. By engaging in abusive behavior, the abuser demonstrates a disregard for God’s commands to love one another sacrificially and to treat each other with kindness and compassion. Therefore, even before any formal declaration of divorce, the abusive spouse has effectively abandoned the covenant of marriage by violating its core principles and committing acts of cruelty and harm against their partner. Their actions reflect a disbelief in the values and teachings of God, rendering them an unbeliever in the context of 1 Corinthians 7:15. So, if you’re engaging in destructive, diabolical behavior, know that you’re not just hurting your spouse – you’re defying God’s covenant agreement. And there will be consequences. But there’s still hope for repentance and restoration. It’s not too late to turn back to God and seek forgiveness for your actions.Remember, “Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows” (Galatians 6:7). Let this be a wake-up call to change your ways and start living in accordance with God’s will. Your future – and your soul – depend on it. (Credit: This is a reworded version of a letter written by Patrick Weaver with a few add-ons. Check his website out here: https://www.patrickweaver.org/)
Finding Comfort in God’s Protection: Strength for the Weary
To my beloved sisters who have endured the torment of separation abuse, I want you to know that you are not alone. God is right there beside you, holding you close through every moment of pain and uncertainty. He sees every tear that falls from your eyes, every sleepless night spent in anguish, and every ounce of strength it takes to keep moving forward.In the face of those who seek to tear you down and diminish your worth, remember that their words and actions hold no power over you. Their attempts to belittle and control you are merely a reflection of their own insecurities and shortcomings. Don’t allow their deceptive smiles to deceive you; beneath the surface lies a void of true joy and fulfillment.While they may think they are getting away with their cruelty and manipulation, rest assured that God’s justice is always at work, even when it seems slow to arrive. He sees the depths of their deceit and the pain they have inflicted upon you, and He will hold them accountable for their actions in due time.
Holding onto Hope: Trusting God’s Timing in the Midst of Trials
So, hang in there, sister. Hold tight to God’s promises, knowing that He’ll set things right in His own time. Remember, no weapon formed against you will prosper, and every tongue that speaks against you in judgment will be proven wrong. Trust in the Lord’s righteousness, because His justice will always prevail.
Finding Freedom in Forgiveness: Embracing Healing and Release
And as you navigate the road to healing, remember the power of forgiveness. While it’s not easy, releasing any bitterness or resentment towards your abuser can bring a sense of freedom and peace. Trust in God’s ability to heal your heart and guide you towards forgiveness, knowing that His love and grace are more powerful than any pain you may have endured.