Hey there, fellow mommas. Today, I want to talk about something that hits close to home for many of us—the ex who just can’t seem quit and loves to get a rise out of us so they can use it against us, especially in legal battles. It’s like they’re set on destroying us by any means possible, and right now, the legal arena is their chosen battleground. But here’s the thing: we’re not falling for their tricks. We’re playing the long game, and here’s how.
They’re relentless, aren’t they? Always trying to stir up trouble, provoke a reaction, and then use it against us in court. It’s like they’re on a mission to tear down everything we’ve built for ourselves and our children. But what’s even more infuriating is how they recruit others to do their dirty work. Whether it’s the new stepmom or even our own children, they’ll stop at nothing to make us look bad, using every weapon in their arsenal to discredit us and make us question our own sanity.
So here’s the game plan: keep your cool, no matter what. When they try to push your buttons, don’t take the bait. Remember, every emotional outburst is just more ammunition for them to use against you. Instead, play the long game. Keep your eyes on the prize and don’t let them derail you. Stay focused on your goals and refuse to be drawn into their toxic games.
And you know what else? Document everything. Every encounter, every exchange, every little jab—they all go into the record. Keep your phone handy to record any interactions if possible. It may seem like overkill, but trust me, it’s worth it. The more evidence you have, the better equipped you’ll be to protect yourself and your children. Don’t let them catch you off guard; be prepared for anything they throw your way.
But perhaps the hardest part of all is dealing with the people around you who just don’t get it. They might wonder why you’re not fighting back, why you’re not putting him in his place. But you know better. You’re playing the long game, thinking ahead to what’s best for you and your children in the long run. It’s not about winning battles; it’s about winning the war and emerging stronger on the other side.